Is sending everyone to the Psychiatrist the right approach?
January 25, 2022
Do you believe other people are entirely responsible for all your continued issues? Are you going to have to book them all in to see a psychiatrist for you to get better? Unfortunately, many people do believe this to be the case. But ask yourself honestly, do you feel any better emotionally or spiritually thinking
Let me pile all my issues on you and let’s call it love.
April 26, 2021
This title was taken from a relationship coaching session that I provided recently to a local couple. One of the main issues they were facing was that one of them thought that now they were together it gave them carte blanche to pile all their issues on to the other person and call it love.
Don’t answer the Knock of Neurosis
April 27, 2020
Have you ever experienced a state where everything seems to be going right in your life, then suddenly you feel yourself swinging into depression, anxiety or stress? Have you tried dealing with it by suppressing it with drugs, alcohol, wrong sex or food? And found this made it worse in the long term? In my
DO YOU KNOW YOUR VALUE?
April 16, 2020
‘My Wage’ – J.B Rittenhouse (1869-1948) I bargained with life for a penny, and life would pay no more, However I begged at evening when I counted my scantly store. For life was a just employer, he gives you what you ask. But once you have set the wages, why, you must bear the task.
Are you asleep dreaming that you are awake?
March 17, 2020
Are you asleep dreaming that you are awake? Confused? Well this was a question I asked at one of my recent Life Coaching workshops. It’s fair to say most of the group looked rather perplexed at first. But soon they all grasped its true meaning. Unfortunately the only time you can realise you were asleep, dreaming that you are awake,
Are you ready for your High Noon?
February 11, 2020
Have you ever seen the film ‘High Noon’ Starring Gary Cooper and Grace Kelly? In High Noon the former marshal Will Kane (Gary Cooper) is preparing to leave the small town of Hadleyville, New Mexico, with his new bride, Amy (Grace Kelly), when he learns that local criminal Frank Miller has been set free and
If you don’t stand for something you are going to fall for anything
January 8, 2020
This concept is taken from a workshop I recently delivered that focused on boundaries. One of the attendee’s asked: “Irwin, I am sick and tired of the men I seem to attract in my life and of the subsequent tempestuous relationships that follow. Why does this keep on happening?” My response was: “Do you have
What makes a good Life Coach?
August 7, 2019
On a day-to-day basis, coaches face many challenges. Life Coaching is an ongoing process, a method of continuous development and a significant learning experience for both coaches and clients. As a process it’s important to not be afraid of taking a wrong turn but then learn from ‘mistakes’. The key to this is realising that
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